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Always be
slow to anger, quick to apologize and willing to forgive 'I am
sorry' can only add to you, it will never reduce you.
Appreciate
your man and always say “thank you” for every kind deed, no
matter how simple. Appreciate every gift and do not bother about
the price, even when he tells you, do not nag about how
expensive it is. He may never buy you things again if you do
that.
Respect his
family- You can't be friends with every member of his family,
but he loves them though, so respect them.
Mealtime, I
say, is family time, no matter how busy you are, make out time
to cook and serve his meal once in a while; do not allow the
house help take your place.
Cleanliness
they say is next to godliness. Your man should come home to a
comfortable and clean environment, if your home is always
untidy, you will be sending him out to go look for a comfortable
place where he can relax.
Neatness How
much attention do you pay to your personal hygiene? Only you can
answer this question. Some women fail to take care of
themselves, when they are married. They begin to appear unkempt,
making themselves unpleasant.
When was the
last time you changed your under wears or wore a decent night
dress to bed? He's tired of seeing the same undies over and over
again; he is bored of that faded night dress. Make your hair,
change your undies; look good; smell nice and you'll be amazed
to see what this can do for you.
Remember, a
man who goes to work all day and sees neatly dressed ladies
shouldn't come home to an unkempt woman. Attention Pay
attention to his moods, ask about his job, business, challenges
and try to contribute positively. Avoid blaming him so harshly
whenever he makes mistakes. Men are like children, a child you
give attention to will always be fond of you, but neglected kids
don't ever give you their best.
Nagging.
Give him peace of mind; you can make your point nicely without
saying it repeatedly. Don't be a nag
Say it When
was the last time you paid compliments to your man? Leave notes
of I love you, I miss you, I care and other nice words in his
pocket, wallet e.t.c send love messages to his phone, mail box,
and even call him to tell him how much he means to you.
Furthermore,
there are lots of other things you can do as a woman to spice up
your relationship; however all can not be discussed on this
page. Until I come your way next time, stay positive, season
your relationship and live the best of life. Cheerio! |
